In loving memory of my brother, Rupert

In January 2026, the most horrific thing happened. My brother passed away unexpectedly from heart failure and I have never felt pain like it. Rupert and I have always been very close, and we have been fortunate to see each other multiple times each day over the past few months due to my redundancy from work and Rupert’s flexible schedule as a driving instructor. Several weeks have passed since Rupert left us but the pain of loss doesn’t go away. He was my soul brother, my rock and always the first to defend and shield me from whatever life threw my way. I will always miss him and his big smile, infectious laugh and protective nature.

Rupert was encouraging of my time out from corporate and my passion for building The Fancy China Company. I am sure he will be encouraging me still in spirit. Both Mum and I aligned immediately on how we could bring some of Rupert’s energy into this venture. We have been overwhelmed and heartened by the sheer volume of cards and flowers to console us during this sad time. Mum was saying today that she must have received 60 bouquets of flowers! She said they have filled her house with colour and scent, but as they begin to droop they sort of mirror her grief. We both agreed that receiving a vintage tea set could be a lasting comfort and memory of both the kindness from the giver, and the memory of the person who has sadly passed away. I’ve been using one of the boxes as a memory box to hold all of the wonderful cards and messages received.

So in Rupert’s memory, my amazing brother, please look out for slightly different sympathy boxes in the store soon. Nothing can ever make life better without Rupert, but I know he would love to be part of The Fancy China Company in some way. I love you, Rupert and will forever be proud that I was your sister for the 49.5 years we had together.